Coaching – the history of the concept dates back to the 16th century and the Hungarian town of Kocs, where the first modern carriage was constructed. Over time, coachmen began to call their profession ‘coaching’. Nowadays, the current understanding of this word was introduced by tennis player, Tim Gallwey, in his book The Inner Game of Tennis (1974). He formulated the thesis that asking good questions helps the player better in using his own resources rather than giving him ready-made advice.

The coaching process itself, following the definition of the ICF (International Coach Federation), is a “partnership with Customers in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential.”
Nowadays, coaching has become an integral part of personal development, offering guidance, support and empowerment to individuals seeking growth. However, like any field, coaching is prone to misconceptions and myths that may affect the understanding of its true nature and benefits.
I’ve gathered below a few common beliefs about coaching, with my intention to bring some more clarity to the reality behind this powerful tool for personal and professional transformation.
Myth 1
Coaching is only for those who are experiencing struggles
Fact:
One of the most prevalent myths about coaching is that it is only for individuals facing significant challenges or crises. In reality, coaching is a versatile tool that caters to a broad spectrum of individuals, including high-performers, leaders, and anyone looking to enhance their skills, achieve goals, or navigate life transitions.
Thus, coaching can as well be a very useful process in our ‘good times’ – when we usually have even more space to practice and empower our resources to be even better prepared to cope with the moments of difficulty.
To sum up, coaching is not just a remedy for problems but above all, a proactive approach to personal and professional development.
Myth 2
Coaching is only about setting and achieving goals
Fact:
While goal-setting is a fundamental aspect of coaching, it is not it’s only feature. Coaching involves a holistic approach that considers various facets of an individual’s life. It covers the area of values, beliefs, thinking patterns and skills, as well as overall well-being.
Coaches assist Customers in gaining clarity about their aspirations, but they also help them build resilience, overcome obstacles, and develop a deeper understanding of themselves.
Myth 3
Coaching is a quick fix
Fact:
Achieving lasting change and personal growth takes time and commitment. The results of the coaching process vary, depending on individual circumstances and dedication.
Sometimes one session is enough to achieve a satisfactory effect. Typically, however, the coaching process is based on a long-term perspective. Such time is a necessary investment, in order to successfully go through the change process itself (usually full of challenges).
The positive consequence of such involvement is usually a sustainable transformation & lasting change, the benefits of which we can feel in our personal and professional lives every day.

Myth 4
Coaches have all the answers
Fact:
There are no coaches who have all the answers.
In fact, coaches are even not supposed to provide answers in the coaching process! Instead, they play the role of the so-called facilitators, supporting people in discovering their own solutions and insights.. They are, as it were, guides in the journey through the Customers’ territory, helping them to read their own map in a way that is most useful to the Customers.
A qualified coach uses a variety of techniques, asks relevant questions and actively listens, so as to help Customers explore their thoughts, beliefs and goals. The coaching process empowers individuals to tap into their own wisdom and strengths, fostering self-discovery and personal responsibility.
Myth 5
Only individuals in leadership roles benefit from coaching
Fact:
While coaching is widely recognized as a valuable resource for leaders and executives, its benefits extend far beyond the board or conference room. Individuals at all levels of an organization, as well as those outside the corporate world, can experience significant positive changes through coaching.
Whether seeking career guidance, work-life balance, or personal development, coaching caters to a diverse range of needs.
In conclusion, coaching is a dynamic and empowering journey that goes beyond solving problems, giving space for personal growth, emphasizing self-discovery and realizing your full potential.
I genuinely think that we can successfully consider coaching as a valuable ally in our pursuit of continuous improvement and a satisfying, fulfilling life.
Inspirations:
https://pl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coaching
https://coachingfederation.org/
Coaching czyli restauracja osobowości, Bennewicz M., 2013


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